I recently turned 25, a quarter of a century young. I used my birthday as inspiration to write about the 25 lessons I learnt in 25 years. That post was all about looking back and focusing on the positive and the life lessons I have learned. Today I want to look forward and focus on the future by thinking about what I would ideally want to do in the next year of my life.
Some things I want to do are realistic, some are far fetched, and some are silly, but they all mean something to me right now. Number 20 is something I have never accomplished and never think I will, but it was a funny one to include.
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- Camping
- Say goodbye to ill-fitting clothes
- Self-hosted website
- New hairstyle
- Go indoor rock climbing
- Family interviews
- Go after my dream job
- Ears pierced again
- Dine alone
- Friendships
- New restaurants
- Regular exercise routine
- Invest in my learning
- Cook my parents a meal
- Go to the movies alone
- Regular monthly savings
- Speak up
- Reduce Pepsi intact
- Body image
- Complete rainbow road
- Summary
The above is a quick list of the 20 things I want to do before turning 26, while the remaining section of the blog goes into detail.
Camping
I am starting with an exciting activity. I really want to go camping with friends. I haven’t been camping since University, so it would be fun to go again.
Say goodbye to ill-fitting clothes
I think this one goes hand-in-hand with number 19. I’ve held onto some ill-fitting clothes for so long in the hopes that one day they’ll fit again. I know they won’t, so I need to take the plunge and donate everything that will not fit in the foreseeable future. I’ll stop trying them on and feeling bad they don’t fit like they did years ago.
Self-hosted website
I’ve been contemplating the idea of going self-hosted. I’ve read many blog posts about the process; some say to start with a self-hosted site, others say to build up a following before going self-hosted. I need to do a bit more research and have the courage to take the plunge, but it would be a nice challenge.
New hairstyle
I think I’ve had the same hairstyle since I was 16. I’ve always had long hair, but it’s now long enough to sit on because of the pandemic. I’d love a new hairstyle, which compliments my face, but I have no idea where to start or what would look good. I also don’t have the courage to go in and discuss what I want; I need to know beforehand.
Go indoor rock climbing
I’ve wanted to go indoor rock climbing for many years. Sometimes, I didn’t have the time; other times, I had no one to go with or didn’t have the income. Now, I am lucky enough to have all three currently, so I would love to try rock climbing.
Family interviews
Family interviews sound so formal, but it does get the point across. Growing up, my family wasn’t really close; it was only when I moved out for University that we all started to get closer. I’d love to get to know them more by asking some trivial questions, especially about my parents.
Go after my dream job
I always feel like I don’t have enough experience or skill to go after my dream job. I just need a little courage in myself to go for it.
Ears pierced again
I’ve had my ears pierced once, and I would love to have them pierced again.
Dine alone
There is something so empowering about going for a meal alone at a restaurant. My courage and social ability have faded during the pandemic, so going to dine alone would be a huge step in my confidence.
Friendships
In your twenties, friendships take work, well for your existing friends at least. Making friends is a whole different matter! I plan to write a blog post about this as well, so stay tuned for that. But, my goal for the next year is to strengthen my current relationships. I have a handful of long-time friends, who I’ve known since high school and a few from University.
I also want to strengthen my ‘couple friendships’. Do you know those friendships where you usually only hang out within a couple? I’d love to hang out with them one-on-one. I just have to get over the fear of rejection.
New restaurants
When you live somewhere for longer than a year, you get into a pattern where your feet just take you to your typical restaurant. I don’t want to do that; I want to try new restaurants, try new foods, and see other places my city offers.
Regular exercise routine
At the moment, my exercise routine is up in the air. I’ll go for a while, exercising regularly, then I’ll stop for whatever reason, and then go back to exercising regularly a week later. I want to be exercising regularly and keeping to a routine.
Invest in my learning
This relates to number 7, to be more confident in my skills to go after my dream job, I want to invest in my learning further.
Cook my parents a meal
Growing up, I was the kid that could not cook at all. One of two (small) fires might have happened because of my limited cooking skills. My sister learnt how to cook at University, while my brother started learning to cook while living at home with our parents.
I wasn’t too interested in complex meals while at University, so I didn’t learn beyond throwing frozen foods into the oven. However, I now know how to cook some meals from scratch, so I would love to cook a meal for my parents. Both to say, hey, I can cook, and because mum cooked so much for us growing up.
Go to the movies alone
I have never been to see a movie alone. It is one of those silly things that I would love to do, just to say I have.
Regular monthly savings
While I save some money each month, it is not the same amount. I would like to have a set monthly saving amount.
Speak up
I am quiet, and while being quiet isn’t bad, I need to speak up more when in groups. Whether this means sharing my opinion, setting my boundaries or talking to someone new, I would like to move out of my comfort zone more.
Reduce Pepsi intact
You know how some people can’t go a day without coffee? Or a cup of tea? Yeah, I’m like that with Pepsi. It’s a silly aim, but I need to stop drinking it so much for my health and teeth.
Body image
I struggle so much with my body image, and some days I don’t even want to look into the mirror. I know I can’t solve this in a year, but I would like to work towards loving myself in my twenties.
Complete rainbow road
Ending with a fun thing to do before turning 26. To this day, I have never completed a lap of rainbow road on Mario Kart.
Summary
I was going to title this blog post 20 things I want to achieve before turning 26, but then I changed it. I know it’s one word; for me, it changes the meaning.
Even though I made a list of everything I want to do, I know that sometimes life has a way of surprising you. Which I’m sure we all know after the last year. Sometimes things don’t work out; sometimes, things work out better than you imagined.
Whether I achieve everything on this list or nothing at all, I just hope the next year is filled with memories, lessons and happiness.
What is something you would love it do?
That’s a great list. I look forward to following your adventures as you do them all!
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Thank you. 😊
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Hehe, aw I laughed at the Rainbow Road one, I used to hate that track so much! I highly recommend going self-hosted, I love the new changes to my blog after doing so. Best of luck with your goals, I’m sure you’ll smash them! x
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I am glad it made you laugh! 😁 I still hate the track so much. Hopefully, I will make the jump to self-hosted soon, as everyone seems to have more opportunities and freedom. 😊 Thank you.
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I always love reading your posts and this one is included! I definitely want to dine out alone at some point too. Love the Mario Kart one – such fun 🙂
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Thank you, Caroline, that is so sweet. I hope you manage to dine out alone at some point. I will always have a love for Mario Kart, no matter how old I get. 😂
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I love this list and the things you’ve set yourself as goals before you turn 26! I like how practical they are and you’ve inspired me to think about doing something like this before I reach my next birthday!
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Thank you! I hope you do something like this before you reach your next birthday, as it is a great way to focus and think about what you can do. 😊
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Loved your post and I hope you really accomplish all this before turning 26! For me, I really want to open up more to people, express more and try out new adventures.
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Thank you! Those are great goals to set. I hope you manage to accomplish all three. 😊
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The last one is funny though xD used to play that game and I think I completed all races. Love your list of goals in this new milestone, wishing you would accomplish all of these. Good luck and btw belated happy birthday ❤
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I’m glad you found it funny! 😂 I don’t have high hopes for the last one. Thank you for your wishes, and I hope to accomplish them as well.
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Happy belated 25th Birthday! Hope you had a great celebration 🙂 This was a fun post to read and may you achieve everything in time for your next birthday ❤
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Thank you. I am glad you enjoyed reading this post. 😊
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Good list & what I love about it is that many people who are not 20 somethings have many of the same goals , such as saving regularly every month or getting rid of old clothes.
Good luck with it 🙂
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I love how goals can overlap, no matter your age. 😊 Thank you for your comment!
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oh yes absolutely. age is just a number!
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